One Year Anniversary

[SerenaWelsh]

One year ago today (March 10), I was diagnosed with PPCM. I was 23ish weeks along and looked at very grimly by the diagnosing cardiologist. He said that if I weren't so far along he could send me upstairs for termination of the pregnancy. He showed me to the door with a pamphlet on end of life issues.

One year later, I'm here. While most times it's very unclear where "here" is, the point is, I'm not where they thought I'd be. I've seen my oldest daughter turn 10, my son turn 3, and my wonderful little 28 week preemie sprout her first tooth (It popped through this morning!). The bond between my husband and I is stronger than it ever was, or ever would be without this sort of thing happening to us. And I now have this great network of women who know exactly what I'm going through, and can attest that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Would it sound too strange to take a moment to say a little thanks to God for what he's brought me, instead of lamenting what's been taken away?
And thanks to all of you, as well.

[jmonte]

Congratulations Serena! "You've come a long way baby" (as they say)!
This is just the first of many, many anniversaries of that day! Julie

[jbeck]

I say a very healthy response to deal with your problems-the gratitude journey-we can wallow in the "don't have's" or take stock and appreciate all the "have's" Very nicely put and yes I think it's wonderful to say thanks to God for all of us being here and having each other!

Janet B

[carriep]

Congrats Serena. Its really hard to believe how fast a year can go. And I think its very healthy to think in terms of what God has brought you bc we are all still alive, were dx and have been made stronger through it all. I am always saying that we're not promised tomorrow so (try) to enjoy what we have for today.

[elizabeth]

HOORAY! You made it through a milestone! You should only feel better and better! Well wishes to you and your family. And take heart, I am coming upon my anniversary on April 6th , it will be 17 years post PPCM. !!!!! Oh Now I feel old LOL. :eek: See you've got a LONG way to go!!!!

[Yvonne]

Hi Serena,
Much be a strange feeling, one year after. A moment you will remember all the depths you went through, but also the little heights. The most important thing is you survived it and I absolutely believe in your skills to show more improvement. I admire your positive attitude. For now congratulations on your first year and may many follow!! I will send you all the luck I can find for your.

Yvonne

[Natasha]

Congrats, Serena! I know how you feel about wanting to say thanks. I feel the same way. My experience with cardiomyopathy has changed my life in many positive ways. Though I never would have asked for it, I have no complaints. Great job keeping a positive attitude!

[momoftwoboys]

Serena ~ I remember like it was just yesterday. You are one of the people that keep sticking in my mind as this amazing fighter/survivor/go-getter. Not to mention your little sweetie pie too. I'm so proud of you for never giving up and glad to be able to talk to you, and keep on talking to you, today...tomorrow....and in the days to come. So, having said that, congrats on your *anniversary* and I WILL say that prayer for you.

[mikeyandBellesmommy]

Happy anniversary Serena :)